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It is known that women between the ages of 18 and 29 are considered the most superstitious. About a quarter of them are ready to believe literally everything that defies common sense and has no logical explanation.

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Surname: signs before and after marriage

By itself, it usually does not bear anything negative. Unless a person was lucky enough to get her dissonant or funny, which became the subject of ridicule. But the sign of changing the last name already exists and remains very relevant and for the bride with the groom, and for those who themselves want to start life from a new sheet with an updated passport.

Sign about the last name before the wedding

Today, when almost each of us leads an active virtual life in social networks and on the forums, more and more often girls ascribe to themselves the name of their boyfriend or future husband even before the official marriage. What is the threat of such a virtual change of name? Signs say that it is not necessary for anyone to voice their future surname at all before the wedding - this can lead to discord even in the strongest relationships.

It will turn out kind of evil eye - when the person himself jinxed his future happiness, and it left him. By the way, self-evil eye is one of the most powerful types of evil eye, which is almost impossible to get rid of.

The sign “the spouses have one surname” is interpreted in two ways. It is believed that even the coincidence of one letter in the last name (first) is not a very good sign. Allegedly, such marriage will not change anything in the fate of the newly-made husband and wife - everything will remain the same with them. And if you don't have to change your surname, then even more so. On the other hand, there is a certain positive - if before the wedding you had everything “in openwork”, then such a sign will only play into your hands. This means that nothing will change in legalized relations with the second half, and nothing will change for the worse in life.

Thus, if, by getting married, you hope to radically change something in your life, then choose a husband (wife) with a diametrically opposite surname. If such a task is not worth it, do not pay attention to this sign at all.

Take husband's surname: signs

There is a well-established tradition - the wife takes her husband's surname. But, according to popular wisdom, a woman who changes part of her full name changes her destiny. And she also becomes part of a new kind for herself - the kind of husband. And if there was a family curse on this clan, some kind of vow and so on - all this will fall on her head. On the other hand, family luck can also go along with a new surname.

According to numerology , name, patronymic and surname are formed in translation into numbers a special number, individual for each ... And changing this number by changing the surname can turn the whole fate upside down. The only question is in which direction.

The right to a last name, first name and patronymic is acquired by a child from the moment of birth and is enshrined in both international and Russian legislation. The newborn receives the name by agreement of the parents. Employees of the registry office have the right to refuse if the chosen name does not meet the requirements of the law. The patronymic is assigned in accordance with the name of the father and cannot be determined by agreement of the parents. The child's surname is also not freely chosen. It is determined by the data of the spouses.

The question of how to give a child his last name may arise from one of the parents if the data of the mother and father are different. If such a problem occurs, you should be guided by the requirements of legal acts.

The child receives a surname when making a record of his birth in the registry office. This information is indicated on the birth certificate. A newborn can receive the surname of the mother or father, unless another procedure for obtaining it is provided for by the legislation of the subject.

Important! In 2017, changes were made to the Family Code. Now the child can get a double surname, consisting of the surnames of the parents, which are attached to each other in any order by means of a hyphen. Previously, a child could get a double surname only if at least one of the parents had one.

Moreover, such a surname should consist of two parts. It is forbidden to use a different order of joining when forming the surname of brothers and sisters.

If the father and mother of the newborn cannot agree on the child's surname and first name, the guardianship authorities will resolve this dispute. At the same time, employees of the O&P should be guided by the interests of the minor and take into account various factors, including the euphony of these data, which may negatively affect the future of the child.

If a newborn is left without parents, the surname or name is given to him by legal representatives, guardians or trustees in the general manner.

The procedure for assigning a surname to a child if the parents do not have registration of marriage relations

If the marriage between the parents is not registered, the question inevitably arises: is it possible to give the child the father's surname. The legislation comprehensively resolves this problem.

If at the time of the child's birth, the parents are not officially married, the newborn can be given the name of one of them. The record of the father is made on the basis of the recognition of paternity by a citizen by means of an application. Moreover, in the absence of registration of marriage relations between spouses, the father is not required to go through the adoption procedure. When making a birth record, a citizen submits a written application for the recognition of paternity, and on the basis of this, the child can be assigned his last name. At the same time, the mother of the minor confirms her consent.

If the man refuses to acknowledge paternity, the father may be recorded based on a court decision. In this case, the child also has the right to receive the father's surname. If at the time the certificate is issued to the newborn, his father is not officially established, he will receive the name of the mother. Subsequently, it will be possible to change it after the establishment of paternity in court.

If the parents are not married, but the father recognizes the child as his own, his presence is required when obtaining the birth certificate of the newborn in order to apply for paternity. Otherwise, the child will receive the mother's surname, since the fact that the child has a father has not been confirmed.

The procedure for obtaining a surname by a child if the father is absent

The surname of the father is assigned to the child, only with the consent of the man and the recognition of the child as the father. Registration of family ties with children in the prescribed manner entails the emergence of certain rights and obligations, therefore, a citizen can be recognized as a father only with his consent or in the course of court proceedings.

If the father of the newborn died or his parents are divorced, he can receive the father's surname. Moreover, more than 300 days should not pass from the date of divorce or death.

If the child is born during this period, paternity is recognized automatically and remains valid until it is canceled by the court. Accordingly, the child can receive the father's surname. It can be changed if paternity is contested in court and the plaintiff's claims were satisfied.

A single mother has the right to give her child her last name when making a birth record at the registry office. If paternity has not been established, the child also receives the name and patronymic by the decision of the mother.

Change of the child's surname

Legislatively established the possibility of changing the name or surname of a child under the age of 14 at the request of the parents and with the permission of the guardianship authorities. If the spouse is divorced, the guardianship authority must agree to this procedure from both parents. Employees of this institution, when resolving the issue, will act in the interests of the minor. Also, upon reaching the age of 10, the child's consent will be required to change the surname or first name.

Changing the child's data without the permission of the second parent is possible in the following cases:

  • If the other parent is dead.
  • The father or mother of a minor is deprived of parental rights.
  • The location of one of them has not been established.
  • The second parent avoids paying alimony and / or fulfilling his responsibilities for raising a minor.
  • At the time of the birth of the citizen, the relationship between the parents was not registered.

If the child has reached the age of fourteen, he can change the data on his application.

It is also possible to change the surname or first name of the child upon adoption. In this case, the adoption of a minor and the change of his data is established in the judicial process. Changes to the registration record are made on the basis of a court decision. Subsequently, it will be possible to change the child's surname or name only with the permission of the guardianship authorities.

Possible problems and difficulties if the mother and child have different surnames

If, after the divorce or death of the father, the child lives with the mother, and they different surnames, difficulties may arise primarily due to the non-obviousness of the relationship.

In order to avoid various problems, you should enter information about the newborn in the mother's passport in the column "children". This can be done at the passport office on the basis of the birth certificate of a small citizen, which must indicate the details of the mother and father.

Difficulties can arise in various institutions, therefore, when contacting such authorities, you should have with you a full package of documents confirming the change of names by the mother and the fact of family ties with the child. Such securities, depending on the current situation, may include:

  • Birth certificate of the child.
  • Divorce certificate with a mark on the change of the surname by the mother.
  • Certificate of registration of marriage relations, if the mother remarried and changed her details.
  • A marriage certificate obtained from the registry office and confirming the existence of a marriage relationship in the past.

Also, problems may arise when traveling with a minor citizen abroad. In this case, documents proving the existence of relationship will also be required. In order to avoid difficulties, an official translation of the birth certificate of a small citizen may be required. It can be done at the consulate of the country you plan to visit.

"Honey, why do you constantly call me not by my first name, but by my last name?" - the guy asks. “Oh, I really, really like her,” the girl admits and adds: “I want the same for myself.” An unequivocal remark, isn't it? According to statistics, more than 80 percent of women take their husband's surname when they marry. But about 15 percent of brides after the wedding remain with their maiden name, and 5 percent choose a double one.

It is a strange ratio, considering that in Russia the wife traditionally bore her husband's surname, as if in confirmation of the words "Husband and wife are one Satan." Even today, according to psychologists, the change of surname, as it were, proves to the spouse the seriousness of the beloved's intentions, her mood for a long family life and the desire to be with him “in sorrow and in joy”.

In our time, she has the right to choose, confirmed by law. Article 32 of the Family Code of the Russian Federation states that “spouses at their own will choose the surname of one of them as a common surname at marriage, or each of the spouses retains his premarital surname, or, unless otherwise provided by the laws of the subjects Russian Federation, adds the surname of the other spouse to his surname. "

But what is the reason for the choice not in favor of the husband's surname?

AGE. According to the observations of registry office workers, most often they refuse to change the name of a mature bride. This is due to the inevitable difficulties associated with the mandatory change of documents. And there are a lot of them: a passport, a TIN, a medical policy, insurance, a driver's license, credit cards, and so on.

INSUFFICIENCY of someone else's surname. Would you agree if your future husband bore the surname Durov or Musorenko? Most likely not, thinking that after all, your children, and, possibly, grandchildren will be Durovs or Musorenko, about which classmates will certainly laugh.

However, this is a moot point. Suffice it to recall the famous circus dynasty of the Durovs, which presented the world with four folk artists. In general, to paraphrase a well-known proverb, it is not the name that paints a person. Although many public people think otherwise. So the famous Nastya, singing in a duet with Potap, became Kamenskaya on her mother, abandoning her paternal surname Zhmur.

Own SOUND.These, firstly, include the names of Russian tsars, nobles or natural phenomena: Romanovs, Obolenskys, Tsvetaevs, Pearls, Gromovs, and the like. Secondly, these are surnames with the endings in -ie or -ich, for example, Volkonsky or Vashkevich.

KIND PRESERVATION. Today, many are interested in their pedigree, and the surname is perceived by them not as a line in the questionnaire, but as belonging to a family, because initially the word "surname" itself meant "family, family members." In the "New Dictionary of the Russian Language" edited by T.F. Efremova gives a clarification:

- Hereditary family name added to a personal name and passed from father to children.

- A number of generations descending from one ancestor.

And if you are the last in the family, and it depends only on you, will the next generations inherit the surname of their ancestors?

By the way, among the noble families of Russia there are many surnames that do not differ in elegance. The same Kozlovs are represented by several different families at once, and the Abolduevs or Obolduevs are representatives of the most ancient noble family, dating back to the 17th century.

PROFESSION. If, before the wedding, a girl of the creative profession has already declared herself on stage, on the screen, on the podium or in literature, or has achieved success in business, then she is unlikely to easily agree to part with her last name, which has become a certain brand with a quality mark.

In general, there are many reasons why wives keep their maiden names. What challenges might they face in the future?

  1. Explaining to the child, as well as to teachers, doctors and other specialists working with him, why he has one surname, and a different father or mother.
  2. Problems traveling abroad with a child, but without a husband, whose name he bears.