Compiled by Boris Khigir

THE SECRET OF THE NAME

Astrology, palmistry, poltergeists, UFOs... Thanks to publicity, today we are discovering all these “miracles” that humanity has been doing for over a thousand years. What can you do, in our country they were not called anything other than obscurantism for a long time. All that was allowed was to laugh evilly at the fact that somewhere in the “decaying” West, people’s destinies were linked to the location of the planets, and diseases were being predicted by points on the lines of the palm or the iris of the eye. This attitude was considered healthy thinking of a Soviet person. And one can only be surprised that in these conditions there were still enthusiasts who compiled horoscopes, comprehended the secrets of chirology, and collected statistics on all kinds of anomalous phenomena. Now their observations, which certainly help a person to better understand himself and the world around him, are finally at our service.

You can believe in all these miracles, but you can just as well not believe them. Just don’t, as they say, deny them right out of the gate. We have already gone through something similar with genetics, cybernetics, acupuncture, irridodiagnostics, manual therapy and many other “harmful activities” that, with a great delay, still occupied their rightful place in our lives.

In this book you have another “miracle” - stories about the characters of people and partly their destinies (the proverb says, as you sow a character, you reap a destiny) based on their... names. At first glance, an incredible thing! After all, since names were no longer given strictly according to the calendar, they seemed to be very random. In honor of grandma or grandpa. Simply because their parents liked them. Finally, the fictional ones: Mels, Marklen, Vilen, Vladlen, Idea, Oktyabrina... Character, as we have always been taught, is partially inherited, and, mainly, brought up - by parents, school, Komsomol...

But now, knowing the name (or even better, if with the patronymic and the time of year of birth), Boris Hignr tells everything about the person, as if about his closest acquaintance. At the same time, he doesn’t have to see him at all. Usually, after asking about their children, relatives, friends, and co-workers, viewers leave Higir’s sessions endlessly surprised by his “clairvoyant” abilities, and psychologists who have tried, but so far failed to explain them, called these abilities “phenomenal.”

Meanwhile, Boris Khigir is not at all the discoverer of this “miracle”. Even the ancients guessed that there was some kind of inexplicable connection between name, character and fate. They believed that knowing the name, one could influence a person, “spoil” them, and therefore newborns were given two names, of which the “main” was kept secret. In some places this custom has survived to this day. The ancients were sure that the fate of a person, a city and even a state was destined by his name.

If so, then by changing your name, you can change your destiny? And people tried to do this in a variety of ways. The Romans, for example, wrote the name in inverted letters in order to cause the same revolution in a person’s life. Isn’t this also done when, when getting married, a woman takes her husband’s name (surname)? After all, by doing so, she seems to announce that from now on she begins a new life. For the same purpose, they change their name when taking tonsure or church rank, or joining a secret society. With the hope of greater luck, writers and artists choose pseudonyms for themselves. All this comes, perhaps, from an unconscious, but deep idea that with a different name a different destiny will come.

And the fact that each name is characterized by certain character traits has been and is being noticed by many attentive observers. In particular, the outstanding Russian scientist, philosopher Pavel Aleksandrovich Florensky devoted a large research work to this pattern, which was first published in our country in 1988 in the journal “ Sociological research" Such messages also flashed in our press. It turns out that a group of Chicago doctors published a paper claiming that a person's name greatly influences a person's life. If it is capable of causing ridicule, then it puts a person in a defensive position from childhood; he must fight for a normal attitude towards himself and this is reflected in his psyche and character. So the original parents, having named their three daughters Appendicitis, Loringitis and Meningitis, literally ruined their lives. In England, therapist T. Weston conducted a study showing that patients with strange names more often than others suffer from various kinds of mental complexes. And people whose names begin with letters in the last third of the alphabet are four times more likely than others to develop cardiovascular disease...

Alexander - "courageous defender"(gr.).

He is always decisive, smart, witty and sociable. But he is often quick-tempered, impudent, harsh, and does not respect the bounds of decency. Anyone who tries to influence him from a position of strength should not expect success.

An introvert by nature, he tries to escape from reality, hiding in his subconscious. He has a vivid imagination and incredible curiosity. Has a synthetic way of thinking and a reliable memory. Justifies his actions and deeds in advance, especially when he deserves condemnation. At first glance, he has remarkable willpower and can make every effort to achieve a goal, but in his determination there is still a certain amount of doubt and unsteadiness. He experiences fear of the unknown and is often and unreasonably afraid of failure. There is some restlessness in persistence, which determines the fickleness of character.

The speed of Alexander's reaction to events is so great that it sometimes takes the form of escaping from unwanted situations. And then he even gives the impression of a frivolous person. It is difficult to understand him, he is too independent, although he strives for a haven where he can find care and safety. Alexander's true face is revealed only after actions that contradict moral standards. Then he breaks the veil of mystery and seeks help from friends. He perceives friendship deeply, and often passionate love develops into strong friendship, but this offends many women.

Alexander is quite active, but tries to give the impression that work in production is tiring for him and he dreams of returning home, where he can do whatever he wants. In fact, the wife has to wait a long time for him to return home from work. Often looking for something incredible and passing by a real opportunity. Luck and good fortune help you get out of unpleasant situations. This man needs a strong partner all his life - be it a mother or a wife.

He is not attracted to science, and if he is, it is only for the sake of personal ambitions. This is a type of independent loner who cannot stand the pedagogical process at school, where one must study under compulsion. Has an artistic nature. Can become a talented actor, director, entertainer, radio and television worker, but can also be lonely

traveler, sailor, lawyer. Artists or journalists with this name are able to reproduce the image of a person with extraordinary truthfulness.

Alexander's health is not very good. Easily overtired. He should take care of his stomach and intestines. His sexuality is mainly mental in nature. He tends to dream about love instead of living it. His sensuality carries something childish with a subconscious craving for maternal warmth.

"Winter" Alexander is unbalanced, his interests are disordered.

"Autumn" - more balanced, but no less reckless. He can do a lot of stupid things, but then, after analyzing, persistently correct the situation. He can make a good entrepreneur or trade worker. The name matches patronymics: Sergeevich, Mikhailovich, Filippovich, Anatolyevich, Emmanuilovich, Grigorievich, Valentinovich, Yakovlevich.

"Summer" - a tireless seeker of love adventures, which leads him to trouble. An excellent graphic artist and writer.

"Spring"- poetic nature. Cheerful, smart, reckless. But also touchy and sensitive. Suitable for patronymics: Dmitrievich, Bogdanovich, Stanislavovich, Vladislavovich, Evgenievich, Danilovich.

Alexei - "defender"(gr.).

In childhood, a sincere, spontaneous child. He doesn't know how to lie at all. When faced with injustice, he can emotionally express disagreement and do everything to spite the offender. In controversial situations, he resolutely insists on his own, clearly arguing his arguments. He is a leader in games and enjoys authority among his peers.

In early childhood, he is often susceptible to respiratory diseases. With age, his body becomes stronger, he gets sick much less often. “December” is healthier than “summer” and “spring”. Emotional nature. Alexey is stubborn and persistent and often finds himself in conflict situations without wanting to. He is an eternal fighter for justice, but adults sometimes get the impression that the boy is an incorrigible bully and a hooligan. Pride will not allow him to prove that it was not he, but his classmate, who was to blame for some brawl, that he only wanted to restore justice. As a result, most often all the blame falls on himself.

"Summer" Alexey has a less strong will than the “winter” or “autumn” one. He needs the support of friends and the approval of his actions by colleagues. Because of modesty, he is not always able to realize his ideas himself; he turns to friends and like-minded people for help. It is difficult to cope with failures and takes criticism painfully. Girls really like his diplomacy and tact. He has a good memory and quickly grasps everything new. Loves adventure literature and science fiction.

Those born in spring are capable of deep feelings, but do not dare to express them. Severely suffers from indecision. The emotional drama he experienced unsettles him for a long time. He is amorous and will not delve into the motives of his beloved’s behavior; her goodwill and sensitivity are enough for him. He prefers not to talk about feelings, since he is still unable to express their depth. He does not tolerate violence, pressure and even the influence of outsiders, but he does not know how to openly express protest and tries to get rid of the presence of such people. He himself does not strive for power. He is not one of those who read morals or impose himself, which earns him the respect of colleagues, friends and especially his adored children and beloved wife.

"Autumn" Alexey is more confident in himself. It’s not easy to talk to him, he analyzes every phrase, demands arguments from his partner, undeniable arguments, and he himself always knows how to prove and defend his ideas. He is specific, laconic in conversation, and has a sharp, lively mind. Initiative, practical, rational. But at the same time, he is attentive to his colleagues, always ready to listen to everyone, discuss the work plan, and takes into account the opinions of others. Tactful, correct, charming.

Winter and autumn give firmness to his character. He gravitates toward exact sciences, is practical, and enterprising.

The name is successfully combined with patronymics: Sergeevich, Georgievich, Grigorievich, Denisovich, Mikhailovich, Vladimirovich, Viktorovich.

"Summer" And "spring" Alexey is softer and more compliant. Amorous and addicted. Poorly protected. His patronymic can protect him: Dmitrievich, Nikolaevich, Igorevich, Olegovich, Anatolyevich, Eduardovich, Arturovich.
Albert - "noble shine"(gr.).

He's sentimental. Polite and delicate. An introvert by nature. Lives a rich inner life, has developed imagination and intuition. You might think that Albert is a homebody, but this is not so, he likes to travel, he is even ready to emigrate. Capable of sacrifice, but somewhat proud and self-confident, although a little timid. The will is strong. Flexible. He doesn’t get into trouble himself; he rather takes a defensive position. We are overly excitable, but excessive receptivity turns into timidity and indecision. Quite lazy and sluggish. Has a slightly weakened reaction.

Well developed intellect. He has a synthetic mindset that allows him to assess the situation at first glance. He is curious, but has difficulty moving from plans to implementation.

He strives for knowledge, but during algebra or physics lessons he switches off and travels through the sultry sands of the Sahara. It is necessary to monitor his progress at school. More intelligent than capable of remembering anything. And he’s not surprised by anything. He has a chance to become an excellent journalist, mathematician, and he also likes the teaching profession, but mainly because the teacher has a long vacation. He will be an excellent bank employee, as he is interested in everything related to money.

Indecision hinders him in matters of the heart. It is difficult for him to express his feelings in words, although he has no depth of feelings, but he masks his impulses with his characteristic delicacy. Very kind, but it depends on the circumstances. He is fascinated by everything related to religion and even the occult.

Albert's health is satisfactory, but he must be careful of mental overstrain. Weaknesses: Digestive tract and metabolism. Prone to obesity. Albert's sexuality is unusually strong, but depends on many factors. Some aspects of harsh reality can lead him to nervous shock. Therefore, parents should be attentive to his life problems. His first reaction to any action is resistance, an excuse. But he has enough intelligence to stop himself in time and abandon meaningless disputes and discussions.

He enjoys receiving guests and going on visits, but on the condition that he does not have to play first violin. Albert enjoys quiet conversations in luxurious living rooms. He loves his family, is not too despotic and demanding. He values ​​the goodwill of his friends, but his friends and relatives should not allow him to become depressed.

"Winter" Albert is a good mathematician. Quickly solves various puzzles, charades, and crosswords. He is strict in appearance, quick-tempered, but does not hold a grudge for long. He is interested in intellectual games.

"Autumn"- an excellent politician, teacher, coach. Persistent, smart, calculates any situation in advance. Suitable middle names: Alekseevich, Mikhailovich, Naumovich, Natanovich, Oskarovich, Filippovich, Yuryevich.

"Summer" Albert is mysterious and seductive. Too sexy. Gallant, intellectual, erudite.

"Spring"- a cheerful and optimistic person, the soul of society, but overly impressionable. This is a journalist, an artist. Suitable middle names: Alexandrovich, Stanislavovich, Dmitrievich, Timurovich, Feliksovich.
Anatoly - "ascending"(gr.).

He cannot be called a sick child, but he should be protected from infectious diseases and injuries. He has weak respiratory organs and nervous system. Anatoly has an inquisitive mind and is highly inventive. A kind of soothsayer, predicts upcoming events. Temperament type: choleric. Unbalanced, unpredictable like the elements.

As a child, he was naughty. Not particularly modest. In adulthood, he may not be able to tolerate alcohol. The person is nervous, excitable, and reacts violently to everything. Mysterious nature. He is both an extrovert and an introvert. Anatoly's inner life is rich and orderly, he is open to the outside world. He interferes in other people's affairs, but does this not always out of pure curiosity, but wanting to help. But still, not everyone likes it. He has a strong will, is infinitely stubborn, and meticulous. He may be despotic; parents should suppress such desires in him. Prone to unjustified wild antics in the family and in the team. Defeat makes him angry. During his school years, he often encroaches on the authority of teachers, but later he himself becomes a good teacher.

Anatoly can become a serious politician, psychologist, psychiatrist. Easily adapts to any circumstances, but must be a leader everywhere. Anatoly's intuition borders on fantasy. The vision of what is about to happen appears before his eyes like a photograph, this allows him to act most effectively. Has high intelligence and an analytical mind. Curious. In childhood, you need to communicate with such a child on an equal basis, allow him to watch TV, read a lot of books, and enter into discussions with adults.

He's too impressionable. Morality means a lot to him; he himself does not transgress the limits of what is permitted and points out to others wrong actions. He starts early adult life, has a strong sexual desire, but is in good control of his feelings. Parents should prepare the boy for sexual life in advance.

Anatoly is capable of understanding everything, and he should not be raised in isolation from reality. We need to direct his energy in the right direction. He is extremely active and self-confident. This creates the impression that he is the bearer of some special mission. Very sociable. If he wants to tell a person something, he says everything directly, without preamble. He lacks diplomacy. In adolescence, it requires increased attention from adults.

"Winter" Anatoly is an excellent programmer and mathematician. Hot-tempered, but fair.

"Autumn"- an excellent teacher, economist, politician. The following middle names are suitable for such children: Viktorovich, Mironovich, Filippovich, Fedorovich, Terentievich, Arsentievich, Yakovlevich.

"Summer"- conqueror of women's hearts, actor. He's unpredictable.

"Spring" - enthusiastic, but too vulnerable and touchy. Fantasy is well developed. He is capable of being an artist and director.

Patronymic names: Bronislavovich, Kazimirovich, Kirillovich, Klimovich, Aristarkhovich - are more suitable than others.

Andrey - “courageous” (gr.).

He is dreamy and inventive, he can spend a long time and enthusiastically assembling construction sets, inventing new models himself, or noisily rushing around the apartment, pretending to be an airplane, a train, or a horseman. He is restless, loves active games, does not listen too much to his elders. She looks like her mother in appearance, but in character she resembles her father and paternal grandmother.

At school age he becomes more balanced, restrained, knows how to control himself, but he is a fighter for justice, very independent, and proud. His relationship with his mother is warmer than with his father, with whom he often argues, proving that he is right. He is vain and carries out any assignment conscientiously. He has organizational skills and actively participates in the life of the team. He willingly helps his classmates and prefers mathematics to other subjects.

The teacher must remember: in relation to Andrey, force or pressure is completely inappropriate; it is necessary to use reasoned persuasion, taking into account his innate sense of justice.

He is a philosopher by nature, a conversation with an interesting person gives him true pleasure, and he knows how to support any conversation. He is self-critical, admits his mistakes, but if someone notices this before him and points it out to him, he perceives it painfully. He plays chess well and enjoys sports. He treats animals well and often feeds stray dogs and cats.

In childhood, he is predisposed to infectious diseases.

"Autumn" And "winter" Andrey is very fair, irreconcilable with lies and callousness of others. He often gets into various unpleasant stories defending his beliefs. Easily gains authority and is popular with girls. Charming and has a sense of humor.

"Summer"- a cheerful fellow, a favorite in any company. He knows a lot of poems, is always ready to read them to friends, and plays the guitar beautifully. He sings well and writes his own songs. He is often the organizer of a school vocal and instrumental ensemble.

"Spring"- has a literary gift and masters the art of oratory. He tells jokes and funny stories, he is a wonderful parodist.

All subjects are equally easy for him, but he knows what to focus on and chooses his own profession. He's doing well in life. It seems that he is lucky. However, his determination and perseverance in achieving his goals are the guarantees of his success. .

The following middle names are suitable for “winter” and “autumn” Andrey: Vladimirovich, Petrovich, Mikhailovich, Maksimovich, Viktorovich.

“Summer” and “spring” - Olegovich, Nikolaevich, Semenovich, Stepanovich, Vilenovich, Vladimirovich.

Anton - "competitive"(lat.).

His life consists of ups and downs. Unbalanced nature. All the time he strives for freedom, forgetting that the price for it is loneliness.

He is constantly looking for someone's friendship, good disposition, and love for him is self-torture. Observes others more, analyzes their actions and draws conclusions. He does not get involved in any adventures until he has calculated everything himself. An introvert by nature. Tends to withdraw into himself. Relatives must take this into account. He is objective, capable of self-sacrifice, although he lacks self-confidence and decisiveness in actions. He has willpower, but he doesn't show it often. Anton is not one of the people who gains a position in society. His efforts are to no avail. Often he himself does not know what he wants and cannot express his desires. His excitability is also dormant: he delays making a decision for a long time, thinks about it, and then suddenly gets excited and does the opposite. Having good intuition, he often listens to it. But he doesn’t use all the opportunities and therefore sometimes loses his composure. Very sensitive to failures, prone to outpouring of feelings. Because of fear, and not because of promiscuity or anger, he is sometimes aggressive. Activity is weak. A constant shake-up and impetus to activity is needed. Prefers to have one friend than a wide circle of acquaintances. He is lucky in life, which, combined with patience, brings him success. Anton is the embodiment of patience.

He is interested in philosophy, psychology, medicine, and parapsychology. This was the name famous writers, musicians, artists, singers. Your little Anton can become a modern, brave electronics engineer. But he dreams of building a big fortified house and hide in it.

Hardy, does not get tired. But it needs fresh air and long sleep. Weak organs: kidneys, eyes; suffers from headaches. You should protect yourself from sinusitis. Anton is not confident in his sexual capabilities, which is completely unfounded, and this can develop an inferiority complex in him. Strictly adheres to the rules of morality.

"Winter" And "autumn" the child should be given the name Anton in combination with patronymics: Artemovich, Mikhailovich, Borisovich, Zakharovich, Mironovich, Grigorievich. "Summer" And "spring" The following middle names are suitable for Anton: Olegovich, Dmitrievich, Andreevich, Andrianovich, Leontievich, Lvovich, Filippovich, Kazimirovich, Klimovich.
Arkady - "happy country"(gr.).

Sociable, friendly, kind. Rowen with everyone. Surrounded by friends, buddies and friends. Responsive, humane. One can envy his fate. But his character is characterized by restlessness, a feeling of anxiety, and a readiness to run away at any moment. Introvert, often withdraws into himself. It is necessary to ensure that this child does not lose touch with reality. He is overly curious, which sometimes puts him in a difficult position. He lacks self-confidence. If you do not pay attention to this from childhood, then he may grow up cowardly and cowardly. Willpower is moderate. The discrepancy between high activity and moderate willpower leads to lack of balance. Excitability is him is excessive for a man. It is necessary to develop in him the ability to manage emotions and make reasonable decisions independently.

Arkady is very active, always in the thick of things, quickly moves towards success and does not tolerate obstacles, but is overly sensitive to defeats, both his own and those of others. He has an analytical mind. Can become a lawyer, journalist, teacher, researcher. Developed intuition often comes to his aid in critical situations. Pedant. Excessive excitability often creates problems. He often becomes dependent on his feelings, although he is freedom-loving by nature and is not influenced by others. Doesn't like moralizing and doesn't listen to advice. Easily lost in dubious situations. He doesn’t believe in anything, he has to check everything himself.

Very sociable, but unreliable. Fickle. Sometimes he craves communication, sometimes he dreams of loneliness. He loves family life, but on the condition that his hands will not be tied. He is lucky and fortunate, but does not know how to use it.

Arkady's health is excellent, but mental overstrain should be avoided. He needs long sleep, a quiet lifestyle and diet. He is susceptible to infectious diseases, he has a weak nervous system. Arkady's sexual attraction is stronger than all other feelings. He strives for the joys of life, but avoids moral responsibility and obligations to your partner.

"Winter" Arkady is quick-tempered, but quickly moves away. Seductive, correct, loved by women. Can work as a researcher, teacher, trainer.

"Autumn"- balanced, but skeptical. Too strict and reasonable. He does not deviate one step from the written rules and this irritates many. Meticulous and stubborn. This is a lawyer, an investigator. ­

The name matches patronymics: Fedorovich, Yuryevich, Alekseevich, Aleksandrovich, Anatolyevich, Timofeevich.

"Summer"- active, sexy, the life of the party. Easily irritated by small things. Maybe a journalist, an actor.

"Spring"- a good speaker, has a beautiful style of expressing thoughts. He is interested in journalism. Suitable for middle names: Mironovich, Valterovich, Vsevolodovich, Martynovich, Valentinovich.
Artem - "perfect health"(gr.).

"Winter" Artem is a balanced, calm boy. he is somewhat slow, but there is no need to rush him, he will do everything perfectly on his own. Someone's leadership or excessive care irritates him. He is independent and independent. Spiritually closer to the mother than to the father, mommy's favorite. Since childhood, he has been attentive and helpful with girls, a true gentleman. He is great friends with girls and never offends them.

He is prone to colds and diseases of the upper respiratory tract, so it is necessary to get him interested in sports, preferably swimming.

“January” Artem has a contradictory character, sometimes it is difficult for him to make the right decision, he is tormented by doubts and self-doubt, and “December” is overly emotional, quick-tempered, prefers outdoor games, and is persistent in achieving his goal.

"Autumn"- philosophical nature, serious and reasonable. He is more decisive than the “winter” one, but he carefully thinks through every decision. Does not make mistakes even at an early age. For him there is no problem in choosing activities or entertainment; he always knows what he wants. He is not influenced; on the contrary, he easily influences his peers. He gravitates towards the exact sciences, is interested in history and economics. He chooses his own profession and achieves good results. He loves sports, but most of all he is attracted to the cycling track. It takes him a little longer to complete any task than others; he is unhurried and meticulous.

"Summer"- disciplined, never violates ethical rules, correct and gallant. He is able to grasp information on the fly, but to use it, he needs time. I have to think it over, go over the options in my head. In physical development, he lags slightly behind his peers - he is short in stature and has a small build until he is almost eighteen years old. Then he grows up sharply and becomes a strong young man. He does not strive for leadership, he willingly yields the palm to his friends, but he will not allow anyone to lead him.

"Spring"- conscientious and responsible. He experiences failures very painfully, is proud, and somewhat selfish. Irritable and capricious, in childhood requires increased attention from parents. Praise is very important to him; it inspires him and raises him in his own eyes. Don't deny him this. If you want to achieve something from him, then you should not put pressure on him. It is necessary to establish a trusting relationship, then he will not have secrets from you. Artem is a capable boy, loves literature and all humanities. Having matured, he prefers philosophy, psychology, and medicine. “Maysky” Artem can become a successful politician, political commentator, and journalist.

The following patronymics are suitable for “winter” and “autumn”: Mikhailovich, Alexandrovich, Borisovich, Pavlovich, Grigorievich, Sergeevich.

“Summer” and “spring” - Gavrilovich, Danilovich, Davydovich, Vladimirovich, Anatolyevich, Nikolaevich, Fedorovich, Yuryevich.
Arthur - "mighty bear"(Celt.).

This is a person who does not bother himself with everyday chores. He will always find someone who will do everything for him. Arthur is impressive and ambitious. Strives for a quiet, prosperous life. Skillfully avoids conflicts and survives the unfolding storm. Introvert. Lives in the depths of his world. From childhood, you need to accustom him to an active life and involve him in sporting events. He must not be allowed to remain aloof from what is happening, to be left unattended.

A strong-willed person, but will manifests itself mainly in extreme situations, in a state of excitement. He has many comrades, but he builds friendly relations in such a way as not to burden or bind himself with obligations. Arthur is slow to react to what is happening, but he has a heightened sense of defeat, failures shock and destroy him.

He chooses a profession that is a link between a boss and a subordinate, that is, he cannot become a subordinate and does not want to lead or take responsibility. Can work as a customs officer, administrator, physician, electronics engineer. Achieves success in the field of alternative medicine. This name is given to famous surgeons or dentists.

He has exceptional intuition. This often helps him in difficult situations. If he is too lazy to carefully develop something, he uses intuition. Has an analytical mind. Well developed imagination. Excellent memory. However, he lacks curiosity and interest. Prefers to think about life's problems while lying on the couch than to take part in overcoming obstacles.

Arthur is very impressionable and sensitive. He heartily experiences the evil done to him and gratefully accepts the good. Morally, he is impeccable. However, he does not obey harsh customs and cannot stand strict boundaries.

He is born weak and should be protected from colds and infectious diseases. He quickly gets overtired, but overwork should be distinguished from laziness: Arthur often feigns it. We need to take care of the nervous system.

Arthur's sexuality is extremely high. He is delicate and sensitive, well versed in female psychology. But sexual attraction and lust take their toll. He exhibits indecision and is completely unable to resist and fight. Loves a motley environment, which includes random people. He has a well-developed sense of duty to his family; it is in the family that he seeks security and peace, and for this he is able to make concessions. You can trust this man. He is not too active and assertive, but has a rare and valuable quality - self-esteem.

"Winter" Arthur is gallant and elegant. Smart, diplomatic. Conducts himself with dignity. Beautiful medical worker, is successfully engaged in scientific activities.

"Autumn"- strict in judgment, correct in statements. It is impossible to get him out of patience. He works in electronics and may become a jeweler.

"Summer"- kind, generous in soul, capable of giving joy. He is attracted to the work of a circus or cinema artist, journalism.

"Spring"- has an amazing sense of humor. He can be a humorist writer and perform his works himself.

“Winter” and “autumn” Arthur should be given a name in combination with patronymics: Mikhailovich, Mironovich, Yakovlevich, Olegovich, Oskarovich, Artemovich, Davydovich.

“Summer” and “spring” - Rodionovich, Yulievich, Filippovich, Timurovich, Leonidovich, Lyudvigovich, Leontievich.
Boris - "struggling"(slav.).

From early childhood he should be protected from injury. Due to his eccentric nature, accidents often occur with him. He neglects his health, and he needs to spend more time in the fresh air. .

Boris is usually purposeful, optimistic, inquisitive, and has imaginative thinking. Sometimes he is quick-tempered and unpredictable in his actions. Fate often tests him. But what is important in life for him is still the uncontrollable desire to have his own home, a strong family - small children are a joy to him. Sanguine in character, he is somewhat dry in his expression of feelings. Often uses an icy tone in conversation, which either confuses or irritates others. But that doesn't stop people from liking him. He may be vindictive, but this feeling does not last long. He has strong principles and tries to impose them on others; if necessary, he will make every effort to do this.

The subject of his main interest is the life of others, in this sense he is an extrovert. This is a boss who dreams of unconditional submission. Boris has a very strong will. He is demanding and domineering not only towards others, but also towards himself in the first place. But his will without a drop of diplomacy, this gives rise to drama, quarrels and even a complete break. Has lightning-fast reactions. Objective, ready to give everything for an idea, even sacrifice his loved ones. He doesn’t like people who easily change their views, but he doesn’t like stubborn people either. Able to work in any team, non-conflict. The end result is important to him, and therefore he finds himself both in the field of art and in the field of science. His real goal in life is self-realization. Inspiration helps him solve extremely complex problems with brilliance. Boris has an analytical mind. This is a born designer with impeccable memory, curiosity and excellent sensitivity.

He remembers his rights more often than his responsibilities. Can't stand injustice. Does not strive to be a favorite in the family, but also does not want to occupy last place among brothers and sisters. Moral and ethical rigor is included in the system of his philosophical views.

Boris is very sexy, but does not like any complications. He does not burden himself with any promises; free love, without unnecessary responsibilities, is more suitable for him. Very active, a real bomb - you don’t know when and where it will explode. In friendship he is faithful and reliable, but does not waste time on people who have nothing to say. He is demanding of his friends and sometimes annoying. It’s not easy in life with Boris, but at least you won’t get bored with him. This is a person who achieves his goal with a creative attitude to work and his own efforts.

"Winter"- strong character, quick-tempered.

"Autumn"- practical, serious. Suitable middle names: Ivanovich, Mikhailovich, Vladimirovich, Sergeevich, Andreevich, Pavlovich, Maksimovich, Zinovievich.

"Summer" - kind, flexible, and to some extent altruistic, but he cannot be called spineless.

"Spring"- squeamish, cautious, reinsurer. His name is more suitable for patronymics: Fedorovich, Yaroslavovich, Tikhomirovich, Timurovich, Eldarovich, Leonidovich, Bogdanovich.
Vadim - "bully"(slav.).

Vadim is usually a healthy, sociable, cheerful child. He, like a lamb, jumps around the room or runs skipping along the alley of the park, scaring the old grandmother or random passers-by with his screams. But this is not from disobedience. Vadim reacts very sensitively to his mother’s comments, he dearly loves her and his father and his sister and brother, if he has them, but he has so much unspent energy... Therefore, as a child, you need to make sure that Vadim does not ride his bike on roadway, did not fall from a tree or balcony. He studies well, but teachers complain about his restlessness.

Vadimov makes smart leaders. They feel people, are caring, and remember their promises. Vadim is extremely hardworking and purposeful. Having taken on something, he will not stop until he achieves his goal. He is not devoid of prudence and some cunning; he carefully thinks through his actions and statements. He has “breakthrough” abilities: getting something rare and in short supply is a pleasure for Vadim; he sees this as a certain game and experiences approximately the same feelings that arise in an athlete when he wins.

This is a passionate, addicting nature. May be addicted to cards, prone to risk. In entertainment, he adheres to the principle of “walking is walking” and sometimes, following it, he goes overboard. Loves fast driving and a good table.

It happens that he dates a girl for a long time, prepares for a wedding, but under the influence of a passing infatuation, he marries another. But, having fallen in love, he loves thoroughly: strongly and for a long time. His jealousy is just as passionate. And this is not surprising: for Vadim his wife is more than a wife, for him she is his second self. A woman who has connected her life with him is usually happy with her fate.

Vadim is predisposed to colds, he also needs to be protected from accidents.

"Winter"- sociable, cheerful, frank with friends.

"Autumn"- passionate, addicting nature. Can become a builder, mechanic, or excel in the field of electronics. This is the leader. Suitable for patronymics: Petrovich, Pavlovich, Andreevich, Mikhailovich, Borisovich, Vyacheslavovich, Evgenievich.

"Summer"- energetic, active, and to some extent an altruist.

"Spring" - loves comfort, loves to flaunt his capabilities, is boastful. An employee of the Ministry of Internal Affairs, a writer, an actor, a realist artist - this is a suitable role in life for him. Patronymic names: Egorovich, Zinovievich, Illarionovich, Iosifovich, Davydovich, Lazarevich - will help him achieve success.
Valentin - "healthy, strong"(lat.).

He grows up to be an obedient and diligent child. As a child, he prefers friendship with girls and protects them from offenders. He is observant and unobtrusive. He is drawn to his grandfather, and it will be very good if his grandfather helps Valik in breeding fish, since he has a penchant for contemplation and peace.

In adolescence, he is interested in philosophy and psychology, he is extremely interested in the mental life of a person, he can make a good psychiatrist or psychotherapist. Valentin is also endowed with other abilities and, possessing the necessary strong-willed qualities, often achieves great success in a variety of fields of activity.

He is a loyal friend; his comrades trust him with their secrets. He will prefer a good book to a football match. Usually he does not smoke, although he treats people who smoke, including his smoking wife, with condescension and understanding. Loves to pick mushrooms, fish, and just breathe fresh air in nature. But it’s difficult to drag him into the mountains. And a summer cottage plot is also not one of his hobbies. Chess and crosswords are his element.

His wife's culinary abilities are not of decisive importance for Valentin. He is content with a hastily prepared sandwich and a sumptuous dinner, not noticing, however, that his wife expects praise from him in both the first and second cases. And don’t be offended by it, it even has its own charm. So, it won’t occur to him to quarrel over an empty refrigerator. In a woman, he values ​​mainly her psychological qualities, among which the most attractive to him are modesty, complaisance, and a quiet disposition. Valentin easily finds a common language with his wife’s parents and does not refuse to help neighbors and relatives. He also cannot be classified as a drinker. Unloving, remains faithful in marriage. Sometimes his affection for his wife is of such a nature that it gives his friends a reason to make fun of him. It is better not to give him a reason for jealousy. He is prone to sinusitis, has weak lungs, and an unbalanced nervous system.

"Winter" - with a strong will and strong character.

“Autumn” - persistently pursues the goal, true to his ideals. Can become a builder, trade worker, doctor. Suitable for patronymics: Nazarovich, Vitalievich, Borisovich, Alekseevich, Mikhailovich.

"Summer" - loyal, affectionate, good-natured.

"Spring"- disgusting, jealous, vulnerable. Can become a writer, journalist, actor. Suitable for middle names: Danilovich, Dmitrievich, Antonovich, Igorevich, Demyanovich, Guryevich, Lyubomirovich, Erikovich.
Valery - "strong, healthy"(lat.).

He has been restless since childhood. He studies well, but is not diligent. Loves noisy games, hide and seek, running. He shows an early tendency to take risks and a desire to test himself in extreme situations. He belongs to that breed of boys who are ready to go into the forest or cemetery at night “on a bet.” Crossing the street in front of a moving car is also one of those risky entertainments that Valery exposes himself to. Loves to read books about adventures, early discovers an interest in science fiction. Father's favorite. He treats his mother condescendingly, listens to her advice and instructions with half an ear, although he does not enter into an argument.

The adult Valery is persistent, trying to acquire a specialty that would help him not only support his family at the proper level, but would also give him the opportunity to travel and see the world. He has a strong psyche, he does not experience any complexes in communicating with people, and easily makes new acquaintances. He goes in for sports, prefers boxing among sports, and can be a frequent and successful visitor to the hippodrome. He loves to tinker in the ground and therefore will definitely try to cultivate at least a small plot near his house, even if this house is high-rise. As a last resort, he will plant greenery on the balcony.

He is scrupulous in choosing his future wife. He is looking for a woman who is spiritually rich and values ​​household neatness and cleanliness. Because of the search, he will not marry for a long time. The girls he dates often break up with him without waiting for a proposal. But in vain! In marriage, he is a convinced monogamist. Attachment to his wife sometimes takes on a purely physiological character; he is simply unable to change her. Not to mention the fact that the desire to change is very rare for him. Some arrogant wives, sensing this, allow themselves to treat Valery with disdain. They are making a serious mistake. A proud spouse may not forgive this.

Homebody. He is touching towards newborns. It is not without pleasure that he goes shopping at the market. Drinks in moderation. Valery born in the winter month is more complex in character than the “summer” one, despotic and stingy. Valery with the patronymic names Nikolaevich, Dmitrievich, Borisovich, Igorevich is especially difficult to communicate with.

He often suffers from pharyngitis and has weak eyes.

"Winter" - purposeful, selfish, cunning.

"Autumn"- hot-tempered, uncontrollable in a fit of anger. Can work as a manager in trade or the service sector. Enterprising. Suitable for middle names: Petrovich, Andreevich, Sergeevich, Pavlovich.

"Summer"- slippery, weak in feelings for the female sex, but avoids responsibility.

"Spring"- may become addicted to alcohol. Outwardly pleasant, but also cunning and unpredictable. This is a musician, singer, translator, actor. Suitable for patronymics: Stanislavovich, Vyacheslavovich, Semenovich, Oskarovich, Voldemarovich.
Basil - "king, prince, ruler"(gr.).

Cornflower loves to play with hamsters and parrots, and will never kick a dog. A favorite of grandparents. He won’t live a day without his fellow peers. And this trait remains with him throughout his life. Having matured, he would rather go into conflict with his wife than act in such a way that his comrade would suffer. And work is also in second place for him. The main thing is friends, comrades. But he tries to do his job in such a way as not to be considered a bad worker, but to be in good standing.

With his employees he is as gallant as a knight, and he is very flattered when women consider him such.

He loves football and hockey, tries not to miss a single match of his favorite team, and plays dominoes with passion.

A strong disadvantage is a frequent addiction to alcohol. When drunk, he is a grumbler and speaks in an instructive tone. At work, they usually know about his drunkenness, but they put up with it, remembering his conscientious attitude. To work and good professional qualities.

A woman with Vasily, who does not drink, feels confident. He is a man of duty. Having married, he will not think about divorce in a week on the grounds that his wife has a bad character or she does not want to cook food for him at all. He will resignedly share the hardships of everyday life, without complaining to anyone about his fate. Responsibility increases with the birth of a child. His affection for children can be compared in strength of feeling only with the feeling of a woman who ardently and blindly adores her only and long-awaited child. In difficult life and family situations, he withdraws, becomes secretive, and then signs of indecision appear in his behavior. He almost always has an excellent relationship with his father-in-law, but he is a little afraid of his mother-in-law.

He has a weak nervous system and should be wary of nervous breakdowns.

"Winter" Vasily is cheerful, sociable, a favorite of the public.

"Autumn"- responsible, obligatory, pedantic. Can become a researcher, programmer, electronics engineer. Suitable for patronymics: Petrovich, Fedorovich, Alekseevich, Yakovlevich, Mikhailovich.

"Summer" - predisposed to alcoholism, weak character. It is run by his wife.

"Spring" - cunning cowardly and acts on the sly. Can work as a graphic designer, journalist, and enjoys music. Suitable for patronymics: Kazimirovich, Vyacheslavovich, Glebovich, Makarovich, Pavlovich.
Victor - "winner"(lat.).

It should be protected from infectious diseases. He tends to be overweight, but he is such a gourmet that even the word “diet” irritates him. Subsequently, he is threatened with osteochondrosis.

Very active and strives for fame. At the right moment he becomes serious and focused. Despite his strong character, he can suddenly relax and do stupid things. Eloquent, attentive, unsafe for the weaker sex. He feels good only in his “shell”. All my life, like a child, I have been afraid of difficulties and various complications in my personal life. Very attached to home. An extrovert by nature, he is receptive and sensitive to both his own failures and those of others. He is defenseless and needs a sense of security in a strong, friendly family. Must develop freely, without parental pressure. You should not constantly patronize him and strongly give him advice; he will still do everything his own way.

Victor is so excitable that he shows his ardor at the most inopportune moment and, of course, ruins everything. In a state of passion, he is not responsible for his actions. It is best in this case to turn everything into a joke and make it clear that his aggressiveness is feigned and does not suit him. He will quickly calm down, since he cares about his reputation.

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Having learned that my daughter’s name was the same as mine, Boris Khigir was terribly indignant: “Rename it immediately! To call a child by your own name means to constantly conflict with him. And doom us to big health problems.”

The hero of this material has a reverent attitude towards the choice of a name. One of our country’s leading specialists in onomastics (a branch of linguistics that studies proper names) is convinced that a name is not just a set of sounds. The initials of each of us contain a coded program for our life and our destiny.

I sound torment

Boris Khigir noticed a STRANGE pattern in his youth. Many of his acquaintances with the same names had not only similar personalities, but also the same health problems. Today my interlocutor has no doubt: a person’s well-being and his name are truly connected. Proof of this is the fundamental research he conducted, sifting through hundreds of personal files in police stations, clinics and family consultations.

The researcher himself explains the essence of this phenomenon quite simply: it’s all about a special combination of sounds, certain vibrations that act on our brain in a certain way. Each name has its own set of sounds of different pitches and timbres, and different stimuli, as is known, excite the areas of the brain responsible for the functioning of a particular organ.

Among those who are predisposed to pulmonary diseases, for example, the most common are Natalya, Vladimir, Yana, Alexei, and Alexandra. Neurotics were most noticed among Nikolaev, Dmitriev, Igor, Ekaterin, Angel, Tamar. Diseases of the cardiovascular system plague owners of such names as Olga, Zoya, Arkady, Boris, Valentin, Yuri, and diseases of the gastrointestinal tract - people with the names Nina, Inga, Alena (not to be confused with Elena), Daria, Anatoly, Victor.

Son for father

But what about the individuality of each of us? After all, there are thousands of Zoya, Arkadiev, Viktorov, Anatoliev, and they are all different, you will be indignant. And you will certainly be right. Our name is half the battle. The main thing, Khigir believes, is that it be combined with our patronymic, which carries a certain program, a genetic code passed on from generation to generation. Any incompatibility leads to internal disharmony and distortion of the sound range. And, ultimately, to disharmony in the physical and intellectual development of the “incorrectly” named person. Boris Yuryevich is convinced: when choosing a name for your child, this cannot be ignored.

And also the time of year in which he was born. Those born in March, for example, should be given “strong” names. Such as Eduard, Konstantin, Vladlen, Stanislav. Why? Yes, because they are born weak and frail: the vast majority of March women in labor suffer from vitamin deficiency. But for “winter” children with a tough disposition and an unbalanced psyche, tough names, according to Boris Yuryevich, are, on the contrary, contraindicated. Those born in December, January and February should be given soft, melodious names, so as not to aggravate the negative traits of their character and neurological problems inherent in nature itself. The wrong name for such children, Khigir believes, can be fatal.

Mom, call me back!

A NEW name can sometimes be a real salvation. In the researcher’s memory there are many examples when a change of name literally transformed the lives of newly-minted Natalia, Konstantinov, Dmitriev, Svetlana.

“I am often asked to help change a child’s name.

The reasons, as a rule, are the same: a difficult character, internal discomfort, increased excitability and the frail health of the “incorrectly” named baby.

Higir does not refuse anyone. Sometimes it takes him two weeks to come up with a new name. The result has never disappointed either the master himself or his wards. Some time after the name change, according to Boris Yuryevich, a completely different person appeared before him! This is how it happened, for example, with 8-year-old Nana (formerly Dasha). Until she was renamed, she was a real hedgehog: neurasthenic, uncontrollable, prickly. It came down to a visit to a child psychiatrist. Having become Nana on the advice of Higir (which her parents sought), the girl was transformed. She became softer, calmer. There is no trace left of yesterday's problems.

Among those whom my interlocutor helped to find a new “I,” there are many people who have long since left their tender age. True, in this case, the new name does not bring dramatic changes to the life of the newly named one: the heavy burden of life experience takes its toll.

No, no, not this!

The CONCLUSION suggests itself. The sooner you take care of a suitable name, the better. But how? What should you consider when choosing it? The desire to perpetuate the name of a close relative? Fashion?

“Neither one nor the other,” says Khigir. — The main thing in choosing a name is harmony. Before you give your child a name, remember what middle name he will bear. A harmonious sound occurs if the emphasis in the name and patronymic falls on the same syllable, so that at their junction there is no accumulation of consonant or vowel sounds. For example: Alexander Vladimirovich, Alexey Mikhailovich. Say these combinations out loud and you will immediately feel the difference with other, less successful options: Stepan Igorevich, Dmitry Stanislavovich.

Make sure the name is easy to pronounce and easy to remember. Avoid unpronounceable, strange names. In the future, they can cause numerous complexes in your child (which, naturally, will not add to his health).

You should not name your baby after deceased relatives (brother, sister, grandmother, grandfather). Especially if their fate was tragic. People have long noticed that the lives of such children are not very happy. One of the many letters addressed to our “hero” is about this (they come to him from everywhere). Its author (a 40-year-old woman) writes about the strange collisions that haunt her son after her husband decided to name him Vyacheslav in honor of his tragically deceased brother: “Misfortunes began to haunt her son immediately. First there was a severe birth injury, damage to the nervous system. At the age of three he developed allergies, at four he fell in kindergarten and received a severe concussion. And that is not all".

Ivan Ivanovich

THE SAME applies to the dangerous, from Higir’s point of view, tendency to name children after mothers and fathers (especially when it comes to boys). The same name and patronymic, he believes, gives the child’s character instability, increased emotionality, excessive irritability, and a tendency to depression and breakdowns. According to the laws of genetics, children already inherit a lot from their parents. So is negative heredity worth aggravating?

Don't call girls by male names

A LOT of dangers await “incorrectly” named girls. Be careful when naming your daughters male origin: Alexandra, Anatoly, Evgenia, Daria (from the male Darius), Valentina.

It has been noticed that the owners of such names often develop a rather complex, downright masculine character. Some of them are deprived of tenderness and femininity, which can subsequently greatly affect their personal lives, lead to sexual disorders and mental disorders.

Don't babysit

Boris Yuryevich does not even advise coddling with a child: calling your beloved child by diminutive names means causing confusion in the formation of his inner “I” (after all, they will not always be Sunny and Alena). Since ancient times, humanity has been sensitive to the name. They didn't just give it away. Initials carry a lot of information. Try to have it with a plus sign.

Compiled by Boris Khigir THE SECRET OF THE NAME Astrology, palmistry, poltergeist, UFO... Thanks to publicity, today we are discovering all these “miracles” that humanity has been doing for over a thousand years. What can you do, in our country they were not called anything other than obscurantism for a long time. All that was allowed was to laugh evilly at the fact that somewhere in the “decaying” West, people’s destinies were linked to the location of the planets, and diseases were being predicted by points on the lines of the palm or the iris of the eye. This attitude was considered healthy thinking of a Soviet person. And one can only be surprised that in these conditions there were still enthusiasts who compiled horoscopes, comprehended the secrets of chirology, and collected statistics on all kinds of anomalous phenomena. Now their observations, which certainly help a person to better understand himself and the world around him, are finally at our service. They believed that knowing the name, a person could be influenced, “spoil” and therefore newborns were given two names, of which the “main” was kept secret. In some places this custom has survived to this day. The ancients were sure that the fate of a person, a city and even a state was destined by his name. Psychologists in the USA have noticed that American guys named Rocky and Chuck become boxers and football players more often than others, and women named Susan are the most desirable brides for the boys of this country... These are some interesting observations. general characteristics the most common Russian male and female names - their main character traits. According to Higir, in order to get to know a person better, you should also look into his patronymic and at the same time negative qualities double the middle name. All people born in winter, regardless of their name, believes Higir, are more decisive, firm, rude, and stubborn. "Summer" - warm, flexible, cunning, flexible, deceptive. "Autumn" - weak, compliant. "Spring" - cheerful, frivolous, changeable. This must be taken into account. However, the name itself seems to create the backbone of a person, onto which the seasons only apply their colors. The author also claims that it is possible to fundamentally change a person’s character by changing his name only up to the age of five. Let us finally ask the main question: so, is the power of names fatal? No, Khigir answers, a person is given a lot for self-development, combating his weaknesses and vices. But in order to fight them, you first need to know them. Among people with this name there are many geniuses - poets, generals, scientists. The range of application of their logical mind is extensive. But the Alexanders themselves, no matter what recognitions and heights they achieve, are never satisfied with them. They are even a little pessimistic, although outwardly they are usually cheerful. It will still be difficult to get him to make his bed in the morning, but he will study his chosen science or specialty all day and night. Yesterday's C student will surprise everyone when he passes his university exams brilliantly. negative attitude . Heather? Undoubtedly! This man is on his own. At the same time, he was so frank with you personally that he allowed you to look, it seems, into the deepest recesses of his soul. Truly cunning people do not allow anyone there. Is he selfish? Without a doubt! However, he cares so touchingly about his mother, wife, and grandmother that he truly forgets about himself. Only altruists are capable of this. Kind? No matter how it is! More like a stingy guy from whom you won’t be able to grab a ruble until you get paid. But, I remember, after returning from a business trip abroad, he brought expensive French perfume to every woman in the department. Who else allowed themselves to fork out like that? One day you accidentally saw Andrei admiring himself in the mirror. Incredible! And this is he, an eternally restrained person who controls his actions and words. Perhaps he can be called reliable - he never forgets to fulfill his promises, and is emphatically punctual. But is a reliable man capable of cunningly deceiving a woman? Andrey is capable... And in general, for some reason, you are always a little on guard with Andrey, as if you don’t know what you can expect from him in the next minute. Often the subordinates of Arkady, the boss, say: “Even if our boss doesn’t pluck stars from the sky, we go to work with joy.” However, friendship is of little value to him. He easily changes friends, as well as other attachments, place of work, and residence. Sometimes he prefers to be alone, but free from obligations to others. The adult Victor draws conclusions from such lessons, becomes cautious, and yet does not completely lose his gullibility: he will first believe everything that is told to him, and only then will he figure out what it really was - the truth, a joke or a trick. And yet we must keep in mind that Vladimir’s character and behavior are influenced more than anyone else by middle names. scientific discovery which will bring success, recognition, fame. In early childhood, he is a “nervous child” - easily irritated, stubborn, always trying to insist on singing. As he grows up, he naturally stops beating his feet on the floor and yelling obscenities, trying to get his parents to do what he wants, but his character does not change. Gennady’s wife, if she does not want a quick divorce, will have to indulge her husband in everything - in marriage he is capricious, demanding, and it constantly seems to him that he is being ignored by attention and care. The soup should always be prepared according to his taste. He is entirely under her command and the only thing he is allowed to do on his own is... be jealous. And Gleb, in fact, until a very old age, is jealous of his wife towards everyone who surrounds her, even if there is not the slightest reason for this. At work, he also usually has many well-wishers and even patrons. Dmitrys, as a rule, achieve success in their careers and become good specialists in a variety of fields... Strongly amorous, Dmitrys easily change their sympathies and extremely rarely indulge in memories of the past. They also lack a sense of responsibility towards their wife, but they are very attached to their children and take touching care of them even after a divorce. Dmitry will never allow his child to be adopted by his stepfather. Often this is a creative person. Efim achieves everything in life only through his hard work. Determination also helps him in this - doubts usually do not torment Efim for long. And the doors of Ivan’s house are always wide open to all of them. Ilya, as a rule, creates his family in detail - and this is where his economic streak comes into play. He is unlikely to get married without getting firmly on his feet and without having enough income to support his family on his own. Loves children devotedly. They retire with honors, although no one will regret losing a valuable employee. They are more likely to show their character to those who are equal to them, but not to those who are dependent on them. Failures cut them down at the roots. All Maksim needs to do is fail to pass the competition to enter the institute for the rest of his life to be ruined. For the same reason, the path to implementing other plans is difficult. Maxim really needs strong moral support. Only if you are lucky and there is a person nearby who can help him overcome doubts, overcome cowardice and excessive reinsurance, Maxim will prove himself persistent in business. People with this name become good researchers, designers, engineers, and doctors. He is very flexible in everyday life, and if his parents or wife have a strong character, he ends up under their thumb. He knows exactly how to sell a car profitably, will find ways to get a scarce item, and will not miss the opportunity to earn an extra ruble. Like no one else, Nikolai knows how to get out of difficult situations; he has enough dexterity, ingenuity, and courage to do this. PETER, as a rule, is musically gifted and has a good voice. Parents will do the right thing if they take little Petya to a music school. He will enjoy classes there, like other boys, like football and hockey. This is all the more important, since in childhood the Peters are disobedient, which is why they often get into all sorts of troubles. They need an eye and an eye, and first of all a maternal one, since it is the mother who is the unquestioning authority for him from childhood, and then all his life. If you do not maintain sterile cleanliness in the kitchen, it is better not to cook food in front of it. Stanislav is the young man who in the army will almost certainly not escape the guardhouse for disobedience to the commander. Engineer, doctor, police officer Stanislav (the professions he most often chooses) - dismissal for “psychological incompatibility” with the team or superiors. Stanislav himself is not happy with his ability to get into trouble, but no one can stop him from this. different husbands with very different moods - it’s not easy to adapt to this. He doesn't always tell the truth and does it masterfully. Secretive, loves money and women, sexy. Cheerful man , he himself loves to joke and appreciates the good jokes of others. He has a clear head, he solves all issues quickly and brings every task to completion. It is not surprising that women love him and appreciate him at work. But one should not be deluded by Eduard’s external lightness - he has an iron grip, and in achieving his goal he can be very tough and even cruel. However, he himself will try to quickly dispel any conflict situation, calling for help with a sincere smile, an appropriate anecdote and all his charm. He is easily forgiven. A friend for Jacob is a sacred concept. Do not try to be cunning with her: principled in everything, she does not understand and does not forgive the slightest deception - you will forever lose her favor. Alla's marriages are unstable. And not just about your family members. Instruct Anna to provide employees with vouchers to sanatoriums and rest homes; she, having lost her appetite, sleep and peace, will do everything possible. Although, in principle, Annas do not have great penetration abilities and are not at all considered social activists. Anna is incredibly trusting. But there are few people with the same generosity of soul that she possesses. Therefore, Anna has more than enough troubles. People around her often abuse her kindness. Anna takes grievances to heart, but does not complain, forgives without clarifying the relationship, much less indecent scandals. This is a meek person with highly developed intuition. Can accurately predict the illness and death of loved ones. Annas are wonderful housewives, needlewomen, and they make good fashion designers. They love art, see and understand beauty, and know how to make original gifts. From the trip they will not forget to bring souvenirs to all their friends and acquaintances. Anna is faithful in love. In marriage they are patient, but cannot tolerate betrayal. And although Anna has been surrounded by admirers all her life, in old age many of them remain lonely. Antonina is infinitely patient: she will endure any of her husband’s antics, even if she loses all respect for him. VERA is endowed with a completely balanced character, she does not rush to extremes, she is a balanced person. But a materialist. And this quality in her clearly exceeds the emotional perception of the world, reigns over dreams and fantasies. Vera looks at all the phenomena in life soberly; it would never even occur to her that with her sweetheart there could be heaven in a hut. She believes that earthly paradise requires very real things, such as a well-paid job, decent housing, respectable husband. If emotions prevent you from subordinating your reason to logic, consult your friend Vera more often - she will quickly return you to the sinful earth. Of course, a lot depends on the environment and upbringing. One Vera, in pursuit of gold jewelry, does not understand how one can stand in line for hours at an art exhibition, the other would prefer a solid position with a high salary to the happiness of having a child. But material calculation will always prevail.. Contact with children is helped by a passion for fantasy, which Victoria does not lose until old age. Victoria is also committed to another passion - collecting. She always collects something: stamps, postcards, works of art - depending on her possibilities. . Whatever Henrietta takes on, everything argues and burns in her hands. She resolves any issues spontaneously, and failures do not upset her for long. Household management is simple, without the hassle of washing windows or floors. She also raises children without problems, but carefully. Often Dinahs are single mothers. For the same reason, people in company may drink too much, smoke a lot, pretending to be women free from prejudices. Elizabeths are often unlucky in love. Because of this, during Inga’s childhood, it is necessary to pay attention to her circle of friends, to protect her from acquiring bad habits to which she is capable of succumbing. All this is all the more important because Inga has a hard time going to school, she is a big fan of sleeping in the morning, and can deceive her parents. GALINA is impulsive, her mood plays an important role in her life. In terms of her mood, she relates to work, housework and the people around her. Today she can be charming and attractive, but tomorrow you will see that this woman is arrogant and cold. She can easily cancel a firm decision made the day before, guided only by a whim: “But that’s how I want it!” She can equally amaze with patience and temper, gentleness and severity, intelligence and recklessness, it all depends on what has come over her at the moment. hardening, gymnastics, running, herbs, fasting. In Inna’s garden, next to the radishes and lettuce, something exotic is sure to grow, which should bring youth and health to all family members. The Inns believe in this. But their special passion is transport. Innas understand the workings of cars, motorcycles, and bicycles better than many men. Usually Claras themselves strive to obtain a higher education and acquire a good specialty, but they choose this not so much by vocation as by calculation - they must be confident in their future, a lasting existence. With all this, Lily is still kind: ask - she will give the last thing. She is amorous, but not so much that one day she will rush headlong after her chosen one to the brink of death. Taking care of herself, her own comforts, will defeat any of her passions. Lilia's children grow up to be very independent people. In principle, the Galinas are quite prudent people, they are by no means spendthrifts, and they strive for life on a grand scale. These are always good mothers who know how to be close friends with their children, although they are often from different fathers - some Galinas get married more than once. In men's society they feel much better than among women - here they blossom, become flirtatious and feminine, sweet and affectionate. Among their friends, on the contrary, they are considered women with a masculine character. But most often they choose husbands who are spineless. and everyday morality. They also tend to strictly monitor the morality of others, which in their opinion is almost always not up to par. Lyudmil has complete mutual understanding with children; they often devote their lives to them. Although she is not devoid of ambition, she will always reassure herself that fame is not worth the fuss. Guided mainly by emotions, she sometimes takes rash steps in life, which subsequently cause her a lot of suffering. It is in vain to expect great fidelity in love from Mary, since with her constant falling in love tomorrow it may seem to her that she loves the other much more strongly. But who she is truly loyal to is her children. Galinas are hard workers and love to work alone in the garden. . At school, if she is not the first student, then in any case she will not be in the last rows. At work, the boss should consider her at least his first deputy, and the husband should consider her the best of all wives in the world. And she achieves all this through her hard work and stubbornness. She can only be frank with very few people. She is faithful in friendship, but until everything goes the way she wants. Colleagues will soon understand that it is better not to burden Nina with public assignments. She will not try to fulfill them, but complaints about the fact that she is always overloaded, loaded like a camel, cannot be avoided. Despite this, Nina strives to become a boss. If she succeeds, her subordinates will not be envied: deceptive modesty will instantly be replaced by exorbitant arrogance, and a quiet voice will be replaced by a commanding cry. As a child, OLGA is an easily wounded, touchy girl, but stubborn - it is useless to punish her: she will not ask for forgiveness, she will not draw a conclusion in principle. As a rule, she studies well, but not out of a desire to stand out, but rather in defense of the bad grades that kill her. This fragile-looking woman is able to tame a tiger. But she will surprise any of her classmates who meet her a couple of decades later, because by this time Rosa, quite possibly, will have already become a doctor of science. This is a person of rare determination, although her whole life seems to pass on the run and bustle, since nothing human is alien to her. Devoting herself entirely to her profession, she will at the same time raise beautiful children, impressing those around her with her thriftiness (and whenever she has time!), watch all the fashionable films and performances; she, always burdened with worries and loaded with bags of groceries, quite possibly has a lover, who knows her as a free, independent, cheerful woman... Rose is principled and at the same time frivolous, harsh and extremely flexible, loves to be in the thick of social events and can spend hours conjuring in the kitchen over an intricate cake recipe... Alas, overload and Roses acquire a bouquet of diseases. Their weak point is the heart, lungs, nervous system, legs. It is extremely rare to remarry, primarily because of children, fearing that the stepfather, no matter how good he may seem, will still bring dissonance into their cozy family world. At the same time, Seraphim are unusually trusting and therefore often find themselves deceived and not very happy in their marriage. Tamara is also obligatory in carrying out all women's household and family chores - she will not leave her children and husband without dinner. And yet she is not interested in the kitchen, gardening, or handicrafts. She would rather read than spend time making a pie, and the family will get by with just scrambled eggs. They like to go on short trips. Positioned towards fullness. But they approach work with laziness, although in their youth they choose professions according to their vocation, strive to obtain them and, it would seem, show hope of becoming seriously interested in their chosen specialty. Rarely, Yulia overworks the length of service required to receive a pension.

You shouldn’t draw serious conclusions after seeing Galina enthusiastically reading a historical novel in an untidy apartment. This does not mean at all that she is a slob or a bad housewife. This is just what she wants now.

HENRIETTA is a real boy in childhood. Parents will have to come to terms with the fact that their daughter will either come home with a bloody nose, or end up on the top of a tree or the goalkeeper of a neighborhood football team. And her character is masculine - she is not characterized by suspiciousness, she is firm, stubborn, decisive, easy-going and will not sit still for long.

Henrietta does not like and does not understand spineless men and women - she is truly interested only with her equals

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The mysterious, inexplicable power of names over a person’s fate was noticed by the ancients. That's why they often gave double names. The real name was kept secret - as a talisman for the baby. And the second name was used in everyday life. Historians and ethnographers find the custom of hiding their names among almost all peoples of the world. Ancient people were sure that the fate of a person, a city and even a state was destined by his name. A change of name is a change of fate. Therefore, when a woman gets married, she takes a new name – her husband’s surname. Writers and actors take on a pseudonym when starting a new career. People change their name when they take monastic vows or ecclesiastical rank, or when they join a secret society.

A name is a kind of bundle of social information about its bearer. Knowing only one name, we already have an idea about the origin, nationality, possible religion, basic properties of a person’s character and temperament. After all, the Russian Orthodox custom of giving a name according to the calendar is not accidental, when behind each name there was the life story of a saint with very specific forms of behavior, character traits, attitude to the surrounding reality, i.e. his life.

Each name has its own sounding music. Some names sound soft, affectionate and evoke an appropriate reaction from others. Others, on the contrary, cause unpleasant emotions, make you shrink internally, tense up, and become cold. The sound of a name sometimes determines the attitude of others towards its owner.

Different names are associated with different colors spectrum And each color has a different effect on the psyche. Red shades cause a person to feel a state of anxiety, danger, suffering; blue, on the contrary, gives rise to a feeling of calm and tranquility. The same is the reaction of others to the owners of “red” or “blue” names. Which also affects the psyche of the owner of the name.

The fate and character of a person are influenced by the date of birth, the time of year, the middle name, the last name, and much more. A whole conglomerate of factors turns into cards of our lives, with which the solitaire of human destiny is played.

Books by Boris Khigir offer the reader “golden keys” that will help open many enchanted doors: to understand their own destiny, and the destiny of loved ones and relatives, the destiny of their children. They will protect you from mistakes and help you harmonize the world.

Index of female names

Augustine (Greek: “majestic, sacred”)

Stubborn and selfish. These qualities appear in them almost from the cradle. She is a little mischief. If she is up to something, she will do it out of spite, even knowing that she faces punishment. In childhood, he often gets sick.

The desire to achieve her goal at any cost is also characteristic of the adult Augustine. This is a woman with an offensive demeanor: she loves to impose her opinions on others and behaves as if she was created for some great mission. Touchy; having quarreled, he may sulk for a long time and not talk. Very wasteful.

“Winter” is a particularly emotional person. She gets into an argument, but does not know how to listen to her interlocutor. For her, the discussion turns into exclusively her own monologue.

“Autumn” is different. This is a balanced, calm, “homely” woman, a little lazy and sickly. She is careful in her actions and restrained in assessing her own merits. She knows how to control herself and is not inclined to seek adventure.

Aurora (in Roman mythology, “goddess of the dawn”)

Aurora is a complex and unpredictable person. In early childhood, this baby causes a lot of trouble for both parents and educators. She is irritable, capricious and stubborn. In appearance she resembles her father, in character she resembles her mother. Susceptible to colds. Vulnerable nervous system. She studies well, she is attracted to music, dancing, and reading. Growing up, she remains persistent and stubborn. Aurora brings any task to completion. She has an unconventional way of thinking and dresses unconventionally. Favorite colors: purple, brown and blue.

“Winter” - sometimes never gets married because she is prone to too high self-esteem. Natural talent makes her strive to shine in society at any cost. Spender. Loves to travel.

“Autumn” is reasonable and does not commit rash actions. There will be no surprises in her life - she will calculate everything in advance. Patient and sensitive. Quite happy in marriage. In the family he strives to lead, but at work, on the contrary, he prefers to stay in the shadows. She doesn't tend to brag.

“Summer” is a captivating, romantic nature. She loves poetry and often writes poetry herself.

Agatha ( Agafya ) (Greek “kind, good”)

Her character is by no means as soft as one might assume, judging by the translation of her name. She is persistent and firm in her desires. Doesn't like to cry and complain about life, strives for independence. Usually reserved, she knows how to hide both joy and grief; it is difficult to determine from external manifestations what feelings control her. Agatha’s peculiarity is her love for her own hearth, the desire to equip her home, to build a cozy nest. She goes to someone else's house with obvious displeasure, preferring to receive guests at her own place.

“Yanvarskaya” is not winter-like emotional, her emotions are literally written on her face. However, a stormy temperament often serves as a protective mask designed to hide indecision and doubts.

“February” is difficult to communicate. It is difficult to be friends with her because of her excessive straightforwardness and intransigence. These qualities often cause family troubles.

Her character is difficult to describe in general terms. The combination of first name, patronymic and date of birth is especially important for her. Therefore, only Agates are open to the world, observant and receptive. Others, on the contrary, are indifferent to others, they are only interested in their own condition.

Agnes (Greek “lamb”, Latin “immaculate, chaste”)

A lively, kind and brave girl. Being a little girl, she is not shy and enjoys performing in front of guests. She studies well at school, especially in mathematics and the Russian language. He plays sports, but without noticeable results. She is a leader among her peers. Honest, principled and fair, she often gets into arguments to prove her point. Very dedicated to work and business. With age, her character hardly changes, except that she becomes more flexible. It happens that she never gets married. But a married woman is a hospitable and hospitable hostess. This woman is very insightful, it is difficult to mislead her. If she catches someone cheating, she will break off all relations with such a person. Her inner world is sublime and bright.

“Summer” – capable of self-sacrifice.

Agnia (other – Russian “immaculate”, Sanskrit “fiery”)

Usually the best student, she is always held up as an example to others. She looks like her mother. Homebody. He is interested in symphonic music and reads a lot. Has a refined taste.

A woman with this name is very principled, with a complex character. She is very talented, pragmatic and prudent in her actions, she does nothing without thinking. This is a nature with a rich spiritual world, subtle and sensitive. With her presence, this woman can decorate any society. She is a wonderful storyteller, hospitable and sociable. He quickly gets along with people, but it is not easy to part with them.

“Winter” – with a contradictory character, argumentative, likes to insist on her own. She is often unlucky in her personal life. It may happen that in her later years she will find herself very lonely. In old age she gets sick a lot, especially her heart and legs.