We should see beauty in every moment of our lives, even when the neighbors from above are pouring feces on you (an optimist will probably think about money). Of course, what thought and emotion will flare up at the moment the problem is discovered will play a role here. When the fuse is lit, you can put it out, or you can wait until it burns out and see what the consequences will be; the larger the explosive, the more problems the people around you will have. When a person explodes in aggression towards an unfriendly environment (as it seems to him), then human thought and emotion acts as a catalyst; the stronger and longer the dissatisfaction with the situation, the faster it can bury the person under a pile of aggressive emotions.
Every person has a “Tsar in his head”, if he is adequate, keeps order in his head, then our life is like a fairy tale, the more claims a person makes to the world around him, the more eccentric the king is in his head, the more problems a person has to sort out, because problems with the king in my head.
The internal state of every person attracts everything that happens to him, in order for the king in his head to be adequate, you need to add a drop of awareness, look at life from the position - That we are completely masters of what happens to us.
Quotes and statuses of great people allow you to look at the world, not through gray and dull glass, where distortions are possible, but to look through the purest and highest quality glass with a magnifying glass. But such a human being, knowing all the quotes and statuses of great people, will still act in his own way! Inertia is to blame, what is it? This is when we get used to hitting the wall, after a collapse in quotes on the stock exchange, or a banal house burned down, we blame only ourselves, but that it is not our fault, but the fault of the wind that brought the locusts, who ate the entire hemp crop! Of course I’m joking, but in every bit of the joke there is a ton of truth, the main thing is to see this truth, and not pretend that I’m not to blame, any bad event just happened.
What does a person do who has been hit in the gut by various problems, for example, a car crashed! A person begins to become despondent - to blame the whole world, road workers, the weather, poor quality brake fluid and a million factors, that is, the search takes place in a completely different direction, but for some reason he is not in himself. This usually happens in a materialistic view, overwhelmed by various problems and an incorrect outlook on life.
How will a believer and a person who works on himself think? So if I got into trouble, it’s good that I survived, that means I’m needed. We need to look for the reason why this happened to me, go through past moments, remembering everything where I renounced love, where I pressed myself, possibly offended, but also other moments. That is, a person will not look for the culprits in the area, he will go inside himself and find it there, changing his attitude and thereby preventing even bigger problems in the future. If we don't draw conclusions from the situation...

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With this I want to end my lyrical introduction, if you can call it that, and start quoting great people. Of course, the word “great” can be removed, this is just for starters and as a catchphrase.
All people are great, from a plumber to a monarch in some banana republic. I think there is no need to create a wheel, but simply return to the state of greatness as it was initially. The main thing is not to go too far!

Beautiful quotes and statuses from great people

And, what colors will be, only you decide. Abdullah ibn al-MubarakArturo Perez-Reverte

It is useless to look for peace anywhere if you have not found it within yourself.

God gives man not what he wants, but what he needs. So don’t ask “why?” , but think “for what?” Buddha

If you are lazy, you will fall into depression. Then you will lose your zest for life. And that's it, it's over.

It happens, but rarely, people understand each other without words, looking into each other's eyes. It is their Souls talking.

To be virtuous means to be a free soul. People who are constantly angry with someone, constantly afraid of something and given in to passions cannot be free.

There is a power in the heart of every person that helps to get what they want. She will not give you peace until you reach the very point you were striving for. Everything is possible under one condition: to really want what you are going for. Vadim Zeland

You just need to turn your face towards yourself.

Believe in your flight and the sky will never end.

What is happening around you is what you allowed.

Everything in the world is simply a matter of choice, nothing more; there are no assignments, predeterminations, unattainable peaks; you are a nail in your own boot and a bad omen; It was you who chose to be pitiful, worthless and lonely - or happy and needed, no one decided for you, no one is able to decide for you if you are against it.

Every time you get angry or upset, it just means that you still have something to learn.

You receive in your reality mainly what is inside you and comes from you. Imagine yourself standing in front of a mirror. If you don’t want to see hostility, aggression, condemnation, rejection in the reflection, don’t send the corresponding images there. If you want love, love. If you need help, care, attention - help, take care, show sincere interest in people.

You smile, just for joy,

The expression you wear on your face is far more important than the clothes you put on yourself. Henry David Thoreau

The main thing is not the place where you are, but the state of mind you are in. Gary Chapman

Let's do little things for each other. This will make not only our souls, but the whole world brighter and kinder.

It's not a matter of age. The point is what's in the head at this age.

Holding onto anger is like grabbing a burning coal and throwing it at someone else. It's you who gets burned, not him.

In order to create a family in which you will feel good, you need to learn to live in such a way that you feel good alone with yourself. If you think that someone will come and brighten up your dull life, this is an illusion. We only receive what we ourselves broadcast to the outside world.

It has been found that if you observe something for a day in a row, it becomes a habit. You just have to hold out for a day and then it will be easier. Dolly Parton

The road to the future depends on the decisions you make today.

Thinking that someone else can make you happy or unhappy is simply ridiculous. Dale Carnegie

The only thing you should do behind a person’s back is pray for him.

If you don’t like the place where you are, change it, you’re not a tree.

If you are in a bad mood, if you have been offended or upset, use the power of a smile. Even if no one sees you, try to smile to show yourself that you are above any difficulties. Think that you are invulnerable, immortal, eternal. Give yourself a smile, as you sometimes do when passing a mirror. Even if your smile is a little forced, it will still help. As soon as you smile, you will feel in a better mood. And in good mood It will be easier for you to solve your problems. You have no idea how much good a simple smile can do for you and the people around you.

If you are disappointed in a person, you must understand that it is not he who is so bad, it is you who saw him as the person he is not.

If you dream of a rainbow, be prepared to get caught in the rain.

If you place a ladder against the wrong wall, then even if there is external success at the top, there will be internal disappointment. Look for yours - this is the key to a happy life.

If you don't like something, change it. If you don’t want to change, then everything suits you.

If you feel like you're giving up, remember why you were holding on before.

If you have a dream, don't just sit there. Believe that you can succeed, have courage and turn over all the stones on the way, but turn your dream into reality.

Have a dream? Run to her! Does not work? Go to her! Does not work? Crawl to her! Can not? Lie down and lie in the direction of your dreams!

There is one thing that a person must learn - to understand his own soul deep within himself, and remain true to it.

Expecting success without hard work is like waiting for the harvest when nothing has been sown.

Women need to not only be listened to, but also felt. What she says and what she feels are not always the same.

Life will not teach you if you don’t want to grow wiser.

Life is not a draft - you write it, you can’t cross it out. Gilbert Sesbron

And don’t look for reasons for offense,

Sincerity always deserves respect.

The source of fatigue is not in the body, but in the mind. You can do much more than you think.

It is important for every adult to learn to be themselves again. Being yourself is just being yourself. It’s not about stopping playing roles, it’s about being yourself, truly feeling and being aware of yourself, your body, your emotions, your sensations. Just like in childhood, live only by what you feel right now. At least sometimes allow yourself this, no matter how serious your life is, give yourself the opportunity to live only by sensations, not think about life, about friends, acquaintances and affairs, just you and your feelings. This will make you understand a lot and experience your life in a new way.

Start every day with victory. Over your laziness, over your fears. There's a wonderful life ahead.

Once you become true, everything else becomes possible. If you are false - just a façade, a painted thing, a mask - nothing is possible. Because with the false only the false happens, and with the true only the truth happens.

When two people truly love, they help each other grow. They become mirrors for each other, they reflect each other. They support each other.

When we see the world through the eyes of love, it reveals its best sides to us.

When you realize with what great love life itself cares for you, at that very moment all suffering, tears and sadness will leave you. And all that remains is gratitude, boundless gratitude.

When energy goes away, it means that people have lost sight of the goal.

Those who do not understand your silence are unlikely to understand your words.

The myth that women only love rich people was invented by lazy weaklings. In fact, women do not love rich men, but strong men who have been able to achieve something and continue to act.

Many envy the result, but few envy the path to achieve it.

Youth is not age, but freedom of spirit. A twenty-year-old man can be a dreary old man, while a seventy-year-old man can radiate youth and admiration.

A man must be stubborn and firm in matters of life. But soft and sensitive with his woman.

We really have to understand the person we want to love. If our love is only a desire to possess, it is not love. If we think only about ourselves, if we know only our needs and neglect the needs of the other person, we cannot love. We must look deeper to see and understand the needs, aspirations and suffering of the person we love. This is the basis of true love. You will definitely love another person when you truly understand him.

We think that God sees us from above - but he sees us from the inside.

We have the right to sometimes lean on another, but not to put all our weight on him.

We are not always objective - we do not always see the whole situation. And sometimes we get upset and worried for no reason. But there is always good - you just need to see the situation “from above”, with optimism and trust in life.

We create our own lives and call it destiny.

We think too much about how to find the right person, and not enough – about how to become the right person.

Thoughts are material. If a person speaks or acts with evil thoughts, he is haunted by pain. If a person speaks or acts with pure intentions, happiness follows him, which, like a shadow, will never leave him. To live correctly, you need to fill your brain with the “right” thoughts. Right thinking will give you everything you want; wrong thinking is an evil that will ultimately destroy you.

In fact, we always know how to do the right thing. The difficulty is to do just that.

In fact, it is so rare to meet a person with whom you feel good in every sense. Listen, watch, even just be silent. To whom you are not afraid to turn your back and understand that there will be no blow. With which it is easy and simple, and you don’t need to pretend to be something incomprehensible. When you can be yourself and understand that the feeling is mutual.

Having a goal is more important than having opportunities.

Learn to demand everything from yourself and nothing from others, and you will gain great freedom and independence.

Starting from scratch is not crazy. Madness is pretending to be happy. Pretend that this is the burden you have to pull all your life.

Don't let loneliness push you into the arms of a person you don't care for.

Don’t do to others what you wouldn’t want for yourself - remember that everything is interconnected.

Without loving yourself, you will never be able to know yourself - knowing yourself comes only later.

There is no need to prove anything; beauty is visible, intelligence is heard, and kindness is felt.

Don't whine or complain about fate. Silently get up, go and do whatever needs to be done.

Don't lower your bar because someone else can't rise to it.

Don’t let a bad mood get to you, let it completely forget the way to you.

You should not be offended by someone who wants to offend you - in his heart he is more offended.

It is not enough to simply “believe” in something. If you want to change this world, you must put your beliefs and faith into action.

Despite the fact that life every time tries to prove the opposite to me, I continue to believe that good must certainly defeat evil, that sincere friendship still exists in the world, and not the pursuit of connections and benefits, real love, not calculation. I continue to believe in miracles, and most importantly, in the fact that each of us is capable of creating a small miracle at least once.

There is no time for weakness, fatigue and despondency. Nick Vujicic

Never lose hope and faith in the best, because after the darkest night a bright day always comes, and even after the heaviest rain the sun shines brightly.

Never take revenge on anyone. All will be. It’s good for you, and it’s good for them, as they deserve. Neil Donald Walsh

But it’s even less common when, without seeing each other, people know what the other will say and what he’s thinking in the next moment. This is the aerobatics of the connection of Souls.

Resentment affects all areas of life. This is one of the most serious obstacles to life, since it is precisely this that prevents us from moving forward; our heart becomes hard. In any case, resentment leads to internal conflict, that is, to conflict with oneself. The mechanism is simple. Everyone strives for inner harmony, wants peace and love. After all, we were not created for pain, neglect and alienation. But it is resentment that creates a negative atmosphere around us and in us. This is a common dichotomy of human desires. On the one hand, we want good for ourselves, but on the other hand, we ourselves do not let go of evil.

The usual background and the contours of fate.

One of the meanings of life is to leave life behind.

One action can tell about a person much more and more truthfully than a thousand words. Ornella Muti

Give up the desire to take and replace it with the intention to give, and you will receive what you gave up.

It is very easy to talk about how to do the right thing when the choice is not in front of you.

Until love is born within you, it cannot warm anyone. First become a light for yourself, then your light will begin to shine for others.

The limit of modesty is to behave meekly in the presence of someone who is poorer than you in this world, letting him know that your wealth does not make you better than him, and to behave with dignity in the presence of someone who is richer than you, letting him know that his wealth does not make you better than him. its better than you.

Premonition is the language of an angel that should not be ignored. Listen to your hunches, pay attention to your intuition, don't chase away random thoughts, insights or ideas. Respect these tips. They can give best advice that you've ever had.

Before you think badly, think well.

Before you judge the mistakes of others, pay attention to yourself. One who throws dirt cannot have clean hands.

Psychological maturity is an understanding of how many things in the world do not need your comments or your opinion.

A bird sitting on a tree is never afraid that a branch will break, because it does not trust the branch, but its own wings. Always believe in yourself.

May the wind be fair to the sails of your dreams.

Let everyone have something that is much more important than money.

The distance between the possible and the impossible is much greater in the head than in reality. Salvador Dali

The best love is where there is respect.

The most important thing is to put things in order in your soul. We follow three rules: don’t complain, don’t blame, don’t make excuses.

The best thing you can do to help the world is to calm your mind and cleanse your heart.

Most The best way changing your life for the better means changing your thoughts, feelings, words and actions every day for the better. Sarah Gio

The secret of eternal youth is the ability not to fill yourself with negativity.

The secret to longevity is to eat more fruit and less of each other.

Strength is the ability to resist temptation.

The forces of the universe never judge or criticize us. They accept us as we are. And then they reflect our beliefs and actions automatically.

A strong person makes demands on himself weak person makes demands on others.

Try to live without anger and without envy,

Fate gives us life, like a children's “coloring book”.

Happiness is not sought after like gold or winnings. It is created themselves, by those who have enough strength, knowledge and love.

Happiness comes more willingly to the house where a good mood always reigns.

Such people come into our lives extremely rarely, and that is why they are more valuable, and that is why it is so painful and scary to lose such people. Fate sometimes plays cruel games with us, sending us such people and then taking them away. Thus making it clear that nothing lasts forever in this world. Appreciate and cherish a person, if fate has given you such a gift, try to do everything possible so as not to lose this happiness.

Your thoughts are your genie.

You will only be happy with those with whom you can be yourself.

You can say whatever you want, but yours shows your true attitude.

Every person in life has two trees, one is the tree of happiness, the other is the tree of sadness. Whatever tree you water, those are the fruits you will eat.

Love has three dimensions. One is the dependency dimension; it happens to most people. The husband depends on the wife, the wife depends on the husband; they exploit each other, subjugate each other, reduce each other to commodities. In ninety-nine percent of cases in the world, this is exactly what happens. That is why love, which can open the doors of heaven, only opens the doors of hell.

We only have it now.

A person always has everything to make his dream come true.

Man has a completely different instrument for flight - the soul.

It's too late to go back to start things right, but it's not too late to rush forward to finish things right.

A smile costs nothing, but how much does it give? It attracts happiness into the home and increases the number of friends.

A smile never hurts anyone!

Know how to forgive. First of all, you need this, and not those who offended you. By forgiving, you find the peace and freedom you deserve.

Learn to manage your emotions. They will leave you - leaving you with their consequences.

February is always full of hope. February is almost spring! And in spring absolutely anything is possible.

A good house is created, not bought. Jorge Angel Livraga

Your life is colorful, or in gray colors, scold the artist - yourself. Cicero

A person who blames others for his problems will never become the master of his own destiny. Anyone who blames only himself for his failures is beating himself up in vain - there are many things in this world that are beyond our control. Instead of judging who is to blame, look for solutions to problems, learn from failures and do not repeat the mistakes you have made.

It is not wrinkles that make a person old, but the lack of dreams and hope.

In order for the Universe to give you more happiness and the things and events you desire, you need to look back and sincerely thank you for what you already have. For the wonderful things you have, for the events that brought you to where you are now.

No matter what happens around you, just bring light. Light dissolves darkness.

To predict a person's future, it is enough to look at what he spends his time on. Charlotte Bronte

I am still amazed by the view of the clouds and the sunset. I always make a wish when I see a rainbow or a shooting star. I saw a meteor shower. The world is full of miracles.

I don’t know a more inspiring thing than the undoubted ability of a person to consciously change his life for the better.

Of course, dear readers of my blog, I would like to get feedback from you, leave your comment - it can be both negative and positive, but my consciousness and self-esteem expects, of course, more flattering words from you, the more the better. After all, we are people, we all love a beautiful word!

The grievances will pass over the years. Even faces will be forgotten. You can’t be good to everyone, even if you have to say goodbye to someone. Don't you dare regret the past. Who should be there will be there! You can’t be good to everyone, and most importantly, you don’t have to!

Expect only good things. Anticipate the beautiful. Discover new things. Get the best of everything.

She lived in other laws from distant worlds, she wrote her life, but took other people's sheets.

She dreams of disappearing into the starry sky, she dreams of becoming free, like a summer evening.

I want to understand who I am. Who am I without all these masks and feigned feelings, without all the forced smiles and sweet chatter at the moment when I really want to fall into the abyss. I just want to understand who I really am. Who am I without all this falsehood?

I want to sit next to you on the balcony, wrapping my feet in a blanket, drinking coffee and listening to the rain. To feel you breathing into my ear and to understand that everything that happened before you was empty and absurd.

But there are no chance meetings. This is either a test, or a punishment, or a gift of fate.

But in fact, we are all equal! There is no one better or worse. It’s just that no one needs us. And we have struck a chord with someone!

And a man should leave as gracefully as he came. That is, forever.

Do you want me to tell you a secret? One such tiny secret? Know that people do not meet by chance. There are no coincidences, believe me, in life. Do not believe? Well, then listen. Don't be afraid - I won't deceive you. Imagine that there are souls tuned to one string. Like stars in the infinity of the Universe, they wander along hundreds of roads in order to meet one day without fail, but only when God wants.

Inhale chocolate and vanilla, it's good for you. Sweet crumbs fall on the bed as always. What does my hair smell like? Fresh breeze and wildflowers? No. They smell like cigarettes and unfulfilled dreams

All great stories have great female leads.

We all get offended sometimes. Sometimes we hate our Mothers. But they feel everything and hold back their tears. Let's try not to upset them, because a mother's smile is more valuable than all the smiles in the world!

All the most important things come into our lives precisely at the moment when we manage to free ourselves from less significant things, but which take away a lot of strength and attention.

Everything that surrounds us once seemed like a magical dream.

All our lives we are shrouded in chains that we forge for ourselves.

Life is a game, play it with dignity. And if you lose, don’t cry and don’t run! After all, everything in the wild is useless: fear and sadness and everything that lies ahead.

You might like green eyes. Grey eyes can charm. You can fall in love with blue eyes. And only brown eyes can drive you crazy.

Do you know what's the worst thing? No, not unrequited love. No, not betrayal of a friend. The worst thing is when mom cries.

You know, I want to open my eyes one day and understand that you don’t just mean something to me, but you are everything to me.

And I closed the gates to my soul. Some people simply cannot understand me. People often tell me that I am beautiful. I would like to exchange beauty for happiness.

How pleasant it is to wake up in the morning, not from the sun, not because you have to go somewhere, but to wake up from his tender kiss.

How often do we repeat the same mistakes - we trust too much, get too angry, love too much, be too friendly, without looking back, without brakes, without a sense of proportion. Stop, think, evaluate the situation - make the right decision.

How often it is easier for us to write what in life we do not risk saying.

When you fly off a bridge, you realize that all your problems can be solved. Except one. You're already flying off the bridge.

When you learn to let go. And not to hell, but with God. You will feel a slight grace. From what is unnecessary beyond the threshold.

Love without respect does not go far and does not rise high: it is an angel with one wing.

Love is like cheese, sometimes hard, sometimes soft, But when love is real, it is melted!

People come into my life, people leave my life, and I just turn the music up on my headphones.

The small world in your hot heart burns with ice again. Your dreams, you look at the ring, and your heart fills with warmth.

Respect is when you take out both headphones to greet someone. And when you turn off the player, it’s already love.

Alas, happiness was not given to us for long.

It’s better to be someone in this life than not to be in this life.

It's good when it's beautiful. It's good when words are not empty. When dreams are colorful, jokes are funny, the wind is soft, memories are pleasant. It's good when there is a mystery that arouses interest. When the lips are soft, and the touches are gentle, when it feels good. When there is a future and it smells of vanilla and caramel.

I want warm sunshine, flowers to bloom, butterflies to fly, music to sound in my soul, and a smile on my face!

I want him to sit on my knee and say: “Will you marry me?” I would answer: “I don’t even know.” And he would take my hand, put on the ring, and say: “Who’s going to ask you!”

There is not a single man in the world who can be content with only the soul of a woman for a long time.

We must learn to live for today and not turn it into a meaningless past, but remember that yesterday it was our future, and so it is every day.

Headphones in your ears and the music drowns out and no one is needed, because it’s better this way.